They get sick of you. They move on, they change, they leave to find something better. Whether you choose to believe it or not there is always someone or something better than you, and others naturally want to find it; they want to find the best. It makes you sick, it makes you hurt, we all know how it feels. What we so often forget during our time of despair though, is that most of them come back and when they come back this overwhelming sense of relief floods through every pore in our bodies. Once again, it’s natural. The thing we tend to forget though, is that the relationship has changed. Never again will it be as sincere as it was in the very beginning; the intentions this time are more self-indulgent. They come back because they failed. They failed and you are their safe haven. Now I’m not talking about those relationships where one leaves out of anger and false notions of abandoning you due to that anger or fear. I’m talking about those ones where the individual hails their compassion for you without reason or notice. They abscond in the midst of the night because they care not for your heart, but to escape the waterfall of exasperating tears and emotions they’ll have to endure from you if they stick around to say an apathetic goodbye.They don’t care, they merely want an easy way out. And maybe, possibly, they once cared, but like I said before, for some reason they’re off to bigger and better things. Now they’ve failed though. They can’t find anything bigger or better than you. Don’t take this as a compliment though. In fact, avoid these people at all costs. For if you accept them back into your life, you too have failed.

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